Second choice....? Second chance...!!!

Mangalore 2014

 WE all have one life to live to our fullest. But do we all get to live as we want to, as we hope to,  or as we wish to? That is never possible.But life is full of options...If you try to opt for the first choice and if the  first choice fails, then do not consider it as the end. It is a signal that there may be another, perhaps better option, waiting for you! if you lose the first option do not waste time in worrying,  instead seek the second option. Hmm I was hell bent upon wearing a particular dress for one of the marriage functions, and I was so sure of that one dress, and I had no time to try it, or that it did not occur  to me that I may have problems wearing it on the d day. I did have problems, and hated wearing that dress, and I repented every minute in that function. I wished I had kept a second choice for myself. ha....In life there are bigger issues, bigger mistakes we make than a dress selection! It is always better to have plan B, ..a second choice, or may be a second chance! After losing the first chance, there still exists a possibility of achieving success. Law of nature is always with you!  May it be your Job, love, marriage, dress, or stress! Take the plunge the second time and you may find the lost happiness.

Life is full of uncertainties, then what to do? It is not possible that the result of a person's striving is always in accordance with his wishes. In such a situation, the best policy is that of adjustment. This formula saves you from unnecessary stress; makes you wise enough to utilise your time and gives you a chance to re plan your life. It gives you unshakable hope. It saves you from the killer psychology  of complaints and protests. I have gone through this stage time and again in my life. I didn't get it,  then I got it,  then I lost it, and at last I have compromised with what I have, I adjusted...sounds impossible? well ..it is the best solution, if you give everything in life a second chance by keeping a second choice! The second choice is always workable, as I have read some time ago...Once in a valley  rivulets cascading down from mountain peaks.  The way each stream flowed till it arrived at a boulder. It did not try to break the rock in order to move ahead. Rather when it encountered the rock, it simply swerved to the left or to the right, around the sides of the rock, and continued its journey uninterrupted. This phenomenon has a great lesson. It teaches that nature adopts the second choice if the first choice is not workable.WE all are like the rivers.When you fail to attain the first option, you need to instantly divert your energy to discover the second option. Nature and history both give us a message: if you fail to achieve the first choice, try to avail the second choice that has existed all along! You simply need to keep your eyes and ears open, mind and heart wide. There is no other way to live life otherwise, with out adopting this theory! I try and try hard and go on living..hope this message reaches my near and dear ones..and they look at life differently..for the second choice, and if needed second time,by taking the second chance...its just one life you have, live to the fullest...., I do!! 

when it encountered the rock, it Rather, when it encountered the rock, it simply swerved to the left or to the right, around the sides of the rock, and continued its journey uninterrupted. This phenomenon has a great lesson. It teaches that nature adopts the second choice if the first choice is not workable. - See more at: http://www.cpsglobal.org/content/second-choice-always-there#sthash.QM891gAF.dpuf

Life is full of uncertainties, then what to do? It is not possible that the result of a per son's striving is always in accordance with his wishes. In such a situation, the best policy is that of adjustment. This formula saves you from unnecessary stress; makes you wise enough to utilise your time and gives you a chance to replan your life. It gives you unshakeable hope. It saves you from the killer psychology aves you from the killer psychology of complaints and protests. - See more at: http://www.cpsglobal.org/content/second-choice-always-there#sthash.QM891gAF.dpuf

Life is full of uncertainties, then what to do? It is not possible that the result of a per son's striving is always in accordance with his wishes. In such a situation, the best policy is that of adjustment. This formula saves you from unnecessary stress; makes you wise enough to utilise your time and gives you a chance to replan your life. It gives you unshakeable hope. It saves you from the killer psychology aves you from the killer psychology of complaints and protests. - See more at: http://www.cpsglobal.org/content/second-choice-always-there#sthash.QM891gAF.dpuf