Dec 2016..
My mind started working as I was planning a surprise party for my friends birthday. Trust me I was more excited than planning a family event, less stressed, more relaxed and looking forward. What made me so light yet so busy..so happy yet so occupied? Yes ..it is simply because the party was to a girl who is so like me, and a group of us..like her, like me...are doing it together. No expectations, no explanations...pure involvement and camaraderie! That made me do some research and come out with some points....which became like the right material for toasting the occasion.
You need people who, for better or worse, have been through what you've been through. After all, wisdom derives from experience. But either way, ladies tend to listen, while men feel the need to solve a problem. You feel much better sharing your problems with your girl friends, honestly.
My mind started working as I was planning a surprise party for my friends birthday. Trust me I was more excited than planning a family event, less stressed, more relaxed and looking forward. What made me so light yet so busy..so happy yet so occupied? Yes ..it is simply because the party was to a girl who is so like me, and a group of us..like her, like me...are doing it together. No expectations, no explanations...pure involvement and camaraderie! That made me do some research and come out with some points....which became like the right material for toasting the occasion.
Every woman has done it, and
every woman has had it done
to her—the minute you start a new relationship,
your
girlfriends are pushed to the back burner. But no matter
how wonderful the
man, it's unlikely he'll ever replace that
much-needed time with girl friends After
all, Girlfriends are
the:
Invisible Bonds, Enduring Ties. women speak their own
language. But more than that, our girlfriends are the family
we choose for
ourselves.
Shopping
If you want to share the experience of shopping with someone, rather than have someone follow you around, bring a girlfriend. Plus, no matter how wonderful your partner is, he will never grasp why the choice between THIS red and THAT red bag is oh-so-important.
If you want to share the experience of shopping with someone, rather than have someone follow you around, bring a girlfriend. Plus, no matter how wonderful your partner is, he will never grasp why the choice between THIS red and THAT red bag is oh-so-important.
2. Group Therapy
Whatever issue you're facing (relationship, work, general breakdown), there's no better fix than the unique perspectives of your friends. Plus, "You don't have to explain much for a group of girlfriends to know exactly what you mean.
Whatever issue you're facing (relationship, work, general breakdown), there's no better fix than the unique perspectives of your friends. Plus, "You don't have to explain much for a group of girlfriends to know exactly what you mean.
3. Get together
No matter how hard we try to change their minds, men have long deemed our guilty pleasure intolerable. But that's OK. Your man doesn't have to have all the same interests as you. Instead, use it as the perfect excuse to get together with your friends on a regular basis. rejuvenating conversations you didn't even know you longed for can relax you. Plus, just being in the presence of a group of people who love, support and complement, can give you a sense of playful freedom, often bringing out a side of you that you forgot was there. Dance Therapy is ideal way of relaxation .There's nothing like getting your groove on with ladies who won't care how sweaty you've gotten by the end of the dancing night.
No matter how hard we try to change their minds, men have long deemed our guilty pleasure intolerable. But that's OK. Your man doesn't have to have all the same interests as you. Instead, use it as the perfect excuse to get together with your friends on a regular basis. rejuvenating conversations you didn't even know you longed for can relax you. Plus, just being in the presence of a group of people who love, support and complement, can give you a sense of playful freedom, often bringing out a side of you that you forgot was there. Dance Therapy is ideal way of relaxation .There's nothing like getting your groove on with ladies who won't care how sweaty you've gotten by the end of the dancing night.
For the
Truth…When Nobody Else Will Give It to You
Ultimately you want friends who make you feel good about yourself, but it's nice to be able to ask a question and receive an honest response—The point of constructive criticism is to improve the life of your girlfriend—not to be a ruse for trying to make her change."
Ultimately you want friends who make you feel good about yourself, but it's nice to be able to ask a question and receive an honest response—The point of constructive criticism is to improve the life of your girlfriend—not to be a ruse for trying to make her change."
Because They Can
Relate To You
You need people who, for better or worse, have been through what you've been through. After all, wisdom derives from experience. But either way, ladies tend to listen, while men feel the need to solve a problem. You feel much better sharing your problems with your girl friends, honestly.
To Be a Better
Girlfriend
It's important to do things separately—whether vacations, dinners, etc.—because you'll be a better woman. A woman with her own network of friends will naturally be less codependent on her partner, which helps nurture a positive relationship. Plus, it's unrealistic to expect to get everything you need from one person all the time.
So with these many lovely reasons to connect with another woman..do I need to say why I need girls in my life? Girls..dont give up on your girl friends...! If you are still in touch with your childhood buddy, or college mate then its fine. A colleague, or a neighbor you can bond with thats fine too..! But if you made a new friend and clicked instantly then that's super as well, coz its not imp how long is your friendship, but how many happy moments you spent and how heartily you laughed! Love you girls, who are my life line!!
It's important to do things separately—whether vacations, dinners, etc.—because you'll be a better woman. A woman with her own network of friends will naturally be less codependent on her partner, which helps nurture a positive relationship. Plus, it's unrealistic to expect to get everything you need from one person all the time.
So with these many lovely reasons to connect with another woman..do I need to say why I need girls in my life? Girls..dont give up on your girl friends...! If you are still in touch with your childhood buddy, or college mate then its fine. A colleague, or a neighbor you can bond with thats fine too..! But if you made a new friend and clicked instantly then that's super as well, coz its not imp how long is your friendship, but how many happy moments you spent and how heartily you laughed! Love you girls, who are my life line!!
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