Hmmmm.....Situations....!!

"I have a situation"! This is the most commonly said or heard expression, in my American life.From road accidents to boy friends issues......, ten year old getting acne to 90 year old medicals ...anywhere, any time, anything...you never know, but it is a situation!! In our day to day life...from family to colleagues.., big or small we have some sort of bad experiences which are nothing but "Situations"!do we solve or drag these situations? Yet another "I have a situation" panic call from my daughter made me think!! I don't know how, but sometimes, as if Gods reading our minds, and sending some help..you get to see something relevant on TV or read a write up in some column which is like "Bingo"!! ha..."Choose your options" was what I was reading, and it says...in any "situation" we have 2 choices..Ignore, or react! By ignoring you are "forgiving", and well what else but "revenge" is what we react for! Forgiveness saves you from creating more problems. And that means you are saving yourself,Buying more time for you..! Reactions, and revenges hmmm..not only worsens the problem, but it also wastes our time with out any positive result or hope! If forgiveness is full stop, revenge has lotsa commas..! Which options do we take now?One is self Pro thinking..one is Anti other thinking! ...where one elevates you, the other thinking will descend you to the lowest level!Wow! good right? Haaa..I called my panic caller and tried to tell her the same,as an enlightened soul!"I found solution for your situation...just Ignore your boss"...! She was like "NO WAY"! The justified argument is forgiveness does not always work, and you need to adopt a Tit for Tat policy! Hmm.. true, but will that be real solution? I am sure it does not end the problem, but leads to a chain of reaction, which means it aggravates the problem. As I was reading, It further says, every one is bound to do something wrong at one time or the other. If we adopt the forgiveness policy in such situations we will be undoing wrongs with rights, but revenge means committing not just one mistake, but making mistake after mistake. So it concludes..If to err is human,to forgive is also human( or Devine!..haa are we all not Devine souls by now?)How cool is that? Did I not try to tell this, but what I heard in return..!?haaaa.. Well its any body's guess...! Any more situations? here is how you can deal with it! Njoy..